Word Count: 607 Date: Wed, 18 Feb 2009 5:56 PM
People with Autism Have a Unique Perspective
It's a beautiful day and we're at the beach. The air is filled with laughter and joy. I smile as I watch my 4 year old daughter build sand castles with her cousin.
I turn to my son and my heart grows heavy. Oblivious to everything around him, he constantly sifts the sand through his fingers, watching the particles scatter as they fall.
We're in the clothes store and my daughter is excited. At 6 years old she likes matching her clothes. She happily goes from rack to rack, wanting to buy shirts and skirts and socks. Her participation is wonderful to see.
My anxiety increases as I hold onto my son's hand. Not caring what he wears and not knowing how to match, he is crying and constantly trying to hide between the clothes racks.
At home I am relaxing on the sofa. My 7 year old daughter suddenly runs up to me and throws her arms around me in a loving embrace. "Mommy I love you so much?" she declares with a huge smile.
It's a bittersweet moment because out of the corner of my eye, I watch my son staring at his fingers as he flicks them through the air.
Walking through the museum my 8 year old daughter is impressed. She happily discusses each piece with us, asking questions and offering her opinion.
My son walks by my side, staring blankly at each piece. My heart is broken. He makes no comment and I wonder if he comprehends where we are.
YEARS GO BY AND MY CHILDREN GROW AND MATURE
It's the perfect evening for a walk on the beach. As we settle on the sand to watch the sunset my 15 year old daughter complains of boredom.
With a sigh I turn to my son and immediately get caught up in his delight. Enjoying each moment as if it were his first time, he watches the sky change color as the sun goes down.
On a tour through a famous art museum, my 14 year old daughter is not happy. Refusing to look at the displays, she constantly asks when we're planning to leave.
I look at my son and he smiles at me in delight. My heart fills with pride as I watch him intently study the artwork and paintings on the wall.
While at the food court in the mall, I notice my 16 year old daughter with her friends. I smile and wave happily. At the age where she's embarrassed to be seen with her parents, she pretends not to notice me and walks right by.
The hurt is immediately replaced by joy as my son innocently gives me an affectionate bear hug and then happily drinks his soda.
We're in the clothes store and my 17 year old daughter is mad. I listen in frustration as she insists that she can only purchase the latest and most expensive designer jeans.
I turn away from her and break into a smile. My son is holding up a simple pair of shorts while looking at me with questioning eyes.
Stuck in traffic our whole family is frustrated. Everyone except my son who has turned his attention to a flock of birds resting on a telephone wire.
One by one we smile at each other as we notice his delight. With his unique ability to appreciate life, my son constantly reminds us all how precious it is to appreciate each moment.
About the Author
Jene Aviram is a major player in the field of autism. She is one of the co-founders of
Natural Learning Concepts. Her work is often published and she is known for inspiring and helping all those affected by
the autism spectrum. Visit her website for some great resources
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