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Quality Time With Your Children

One day I ask my friend why her children are so smart and happy in disposition. She said they she makes her children feel secure and they know that they are always there whenever they need help. Children are in their best if they know that they are in the atmosphere filled with love and acceptance. For me that is true, if we care for children and give them a comfortable place to live there is an assurance they will grow into good individuals.

For me as a mother, communication is the basic tool for the children. Children need attention; they need to have quality time from their parents. One of my friends told me that she is always at home but her children behave weirdly at school and at home. I asked her if she talks to her children or play with them once in a while, she said she is too busy with many things at home and also have some business to attend to, she thought being present physically is alright.

Well that's what she thinks but quality time for children is the best, the quantity is ok but if you are only physically present but have still no time to chat or play around with your children, still the children feel neglected.

We parents should always include our children in our agenda, no matter how hard just remember we bring these children to this world not to give us happiness, rather we have an obligation to make them happy and live in the most convenient life. But most parents only give one of the 2 basic needs to their children. Unfortunately, they give them less on what is really important. I cannot blame other parents if they have to work hard because nowadays, money is very important and to earn this we must work hard, this time both parents are busy from earning money. Some parents say that they work to give their children a decent life. But they didn't know that the best thing they could give to their children is their time and love.

As a mother maybe I am lucky to know early that the children always look up on their parents. We thought giving them toys, delicious foods and sending them to a good school is enough but as I said children need attention.

My husband grew up with a loving set of parents, although they were not rich, our parents made sure that they provide us with proper attention and guidance. My husband's father was a carpenter and his mother is a housekeeper at that time. He had 6 other siblings and it was amazing that they grew up smart and with happy disposition in life in spite of the fact that they are poor.

He told me that his father always gave his attention to each of them; he is the one who sees to it that they did their assignments and if there is more time he played with them at night. In just 1 hour of spending time with his kids means a lot on their children.

His mother made sure that they are clean before going to bed and pray together with her children. Those simple things they do give a big impact on the children's minds. So, all of them aim that someday they will give their parents a blissful life. And it happen they all became a working student at that time they need to this because they know that their parent can no longer support them all, because they love their parents they understand the situation. As of now they give the best that they can give to their parents and live happily at their prime.

In my conclusion parents should only invest a little time for their children , be their haven of support because life is short you can never tell one day you could see your children all grown up and there is nothing to reminisce good things together.

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