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As A Woman Thinketh

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The Impossible Dream is Possible

As I go about my daily routine contemplating the life I desire to live, as well as the legacy I desire to leave behind, I am reminded of my failings. I pull myself together and make the conscious choice to forgive myself of my perceived failings, and I give thanks for the many opportunities in my life.

Women have a tendency to live in their heads, or in their minds. We are always thinking or planning ahead. What do we need to have accomplished today? Women in large measure are responsible for, or have been left the responsibility of the running of the day to day household duties. What about those women who have jobs outside their homes, or have business’ of their own

This gives our brain a lot of information every day, to process. It’s no wonder we “think” a lot.

We each have stories that bring us to a turning point in our lives. These stories humanize us. I remember in my story, the day that I knew my life would change forever.

I worked in the healthcare industry for 25 years. It had proved to be a rewarding career. I worked hard, gained respect and a reputation that was positive. During my tenure, I assisted many people as well as achieving financial stability.

There were several events leading up to the day I made the choice to lead a lifestyle different than any I had previously known.

The individual I had worked for, respected, and in large measure was part of my family, made choices in his life that were less than honorable. They affected the lives of many of his patients, and potentially could have cost a patient his/her life. I was faced with the question, “Do I do nothing, and continue to collect a paycheck, or do I do what I know is right, and report him?” That was the most difficult question I recall ever having to answer. Not only did it affect my paycheck, but the entire staffs. It destroyed the reputation and licensure of a very gifted physician, as well as his family. The bigger question however was this…How could I allow him to continue to practice and potentially be responsible for the death of a child? Would I ever be able to look myself in the mirror again? The answer was … No.

I read a statement in the Travelers gift, by Andy Andrews that has remained a large part of my thought process. He said that “first we make choices, then our choices make us”. My previous choice to sit on the sidelines brought my honor into question. That is not who I was or who I am. Honor is doing the right thing, no matter what the cost. I chose to reclaim my honor.

It has been a bumpy road, but with persistent effort I have moved to a much happier, healthier road. I have been fortunate to have great teachers and mentors along the way.

Today, my life is on an entirely different pathway. One of self respect, love and opportunity. I have learned so much. I know that I can assist other women find their way to a life of choice rather than one of oppression.

In corporate America, many women are still treated as second class citizens. It is reflected in their paychecks, their opportunities for promotion and ultimately impacts their state of mind. Women are often told that they are not smart. Women often are not comfortable asking for a raise, or making a complaint. They fear retribution or rejection. Which one was it for you? I recall a particular situation, where a man applied for a job in my clinic. He was not hired because my boss said he would have to pay him more than he paid the women who worked there! That is wage discrimination, in both instances.

How many women seek other employment or business opportunities and feel sure that they will be rejected. I would bet a lot more than statistics report. This feeling, or the thought of rejection is difficult to overcome. We live and re-live these in our minds until we know without question that we are not good enough. How do we go about changing these ideas of ourselves? Here are some ways I have found!

1. Read…..Not just anything, read books of Inspiration. Read stories of Success.
2. Assist someone in need….Find a neighbor, friend or stranger who’s circumstances may be more challenged than your own life situation.
3. Exercise….This raises your endorphin level, and will raise your energy level.
4. Pray…Connect with your spirit and give thanks for everything in your life.
5. Forgive….Ourselves and Others.
6. Listen to CD’s….either music or inspirational training cd’s
7. Focus on Positive Ideals….Reduce the amount of time spent with past associates who tend to complain.
8. Watch little or no TV….The media loves to flood our minds with negativity
9. Breathe….Learn proper breathing techniques.
10. Love yourself EVERY DAY!

By following these ten steps, I have found it much easier to get out of my head and find the true value in my self. I always worried about what someone else might think. I always worried about things that were only illusions. I worried about “stuff” that truly didn’t matter.

Women are emotional beings. We operate on full engines of this. Emotions are both friend and foe. Emotions can serve us in our enlightened states. This is what is called intuition. It can guide us to safe ground, it can tell us when something is right. It can direct us to the right opportunity. It can warn us about impending dangers. It can also work against us. We can allow our emotions to control us, overwhelm our entire life circumstance. It well may turn us away from opportunities due to fear.

I was once asked how it would feel to be “out of control”. My response was, I would feel unorganized, and scattered. My friend then taught me that by giving up control, I would gain command. He said that by needing to control all around me, I was setting myself up for failure. There was to much around me to ever assume I could control it all. Instead, gaining command of my emotions, allowed me to have the freedom to pick and choose the situations in my life that I wished to give attention to.

A woman’s mind is as capable today, as it was yesterday. Today we have an abundance of tools to assist us in our journey. We have great leaders to follow. One question, why settle for being a follower? We are all destined to be a great leader.

Women don’t have to settle for a life of oppression. Use your imagination ladies, there is an entire world of opportunity just waiting for you to grab on to it. Step out into new territory. Be your own dream, by living your own dream.

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<h1>As A Woman Thinketh</h1><br />by jkhbraveheart<br />The Impossible Dream is Possible <br /><br />As I go about my daily routine contemplating the life I desire to live, as well as the legacy I desire to leave behind, I am reminded of my failings. I pull myself together and make the conscious choice to forgive myself of my perceived failings, and I give thanks for the many opportunities in my life. <br /><br />Women have a tendency to live in their heads, or in their minds. We are always thinking or planning ahead. What do we need to have accomplished today? Women in large measure are responsible for, or have been left the responsibility of the running of the day to day household duties. What about those women who have jobs outside their homes, or have business’ of their own <br /><br />This gives our brain a lot of information every day, to process. It’s no wonder we “think” a lot. <br /><br />We each have stories that bring us to a turning point in our lives. These stories humanize us. I remember in my story, the day that I knew my life would change forever. <br /><br />I worked in the healthcare industry for 25 years. It had proved to be a rewarding career. I worked hard, gained respect and a reputation that was positive. During my tenure, I assisted many people as well as achieving financial stability. <br /><br />There were several events leading up to the day I made the choice to lead a lifestyle different than any I had previously known. <br /><br />The individual I had worked for, respected, and in large measure was part of my family, made choices in his life that were less than honorable. They affected the lives of many of his patients, and potentially could have cost a patient his/her life. I was faced with the question, “Do I do nothing, and continue to collect a paycheck, or do I do what I know is right, and report him?” That was the most difficult question I recall ever having to answer. Not only did it affect my paycheck, but the entire staffs. It destroyed the reputation and licensure of a very gifted physician, as well as his family. The bigger question however was this…How could I allow him to continue to practice and potentially be responsible for the death of a child? Would I ever be able to look myself in the mirror again? The answer was … No. <br /><br />I read a statement in the Travelers gift, by Andy Andrews that has remained a large part of my thought process. He said that “first we make choices, then our choices make us”. My previous choice to sit on the sidelines brought my honor into question. That is not who I was or who I am. Honor is doing the right thing, no matter what the cost. I chose to reclaim my honor. <br /><br />It has been a bumpy road, but with persistent effort I have moved to a much happier, healthier road. I have been fortunate to have great teachers and mentors along the way. <br /><br />Today, my life is on an entirely different pathway. One of self respect, love and opportunity. I have learned so much. I know that I can assist other women find their way to a life of choice rather than one of oppression. <br /><br />In corporate America, many women are still treated as second class citizens. It is reflected in their paychecks, their opportunities for promotion and ultimately impacts their state of mind. Women are often told that they are not smart. Women often are not comfortable asking for a raise, or making a complaint. They fear retribution or rejection. Which one was it for you? I recall a particular situation, where a man applied for a job in my clinic. He was not hired because my boss said he would have to pay him more than he paid the women who worked there! That is wage discrimination, in both instances. <br /><br />How many women seek other employment or business opportunities and feel sure that they will be rejected. I would bet a lot more than statistics report. This feeling, or the thought of rejection is difficult to overcome. We live and re-live these in our minds until we know without question that we are not good enough. How do we go about changing these ideas of ourselves? Here are some ways I have found! <br /><br /> 1. Read…..Not just anything, read books of Inspiration. Read stories of Success.<br /> 2. Assist someone in need….Find a neighbor, friend or stranger who’s circumstances may be more challenged than your own life situation.<br /> 3. Exercise….This raises your endorphin level, and will raise your energy level.<br /> 4. Pray…Connect with your spirit and give thanks for everything in your life.<br /> 5. Forgive….Ourselves and Others.<br /> 6. Listen to CD’s….either music or inspirational training cd’s<br /> 7. Focus on Positive Ideals….Reduce the amount of time spent with past associates who tend to complain.<br /> 8. Watch little or no TV….The media loves to flood our minds with negativity <br /> 9. Breathe….Learn proper breathing techniques.<br /> 10. Love yourself EVERY DAY! <br /><br />By following these ten steps, I have found it much easier to get out of my head and find the true value in my self. I always worried about what someone else might think. I always worried about things that were only illusions. I worried about “stuff” that truly didn’t matter. <br /><br />Women are emotional beings. We operate on full engines of this. Emotions are both friend and foe. Emotions can serve us in our enlightened states. This is what is called intuition. It can guide us to safe ground, it can tell us when something is right. It can direct us to the right opportunity. It can warn us about impending dangers. It can also work against us. We can allow our emotions to control us, overwhelm our entire life circumstance. It well may turn us away from opportunities due to fear. <br /><br />I was once asked how it would feel to be “out of control”. My response was, I would feel unorganized, and scattered. My friend then taught me that by giving up control, I would gain command. He said that by needing to control all around me, I was setting myself up for failure. There was to much around me to ever assume I could control it all. Instead, gaining command of my emotions, allowed me to have the freedom to pick and choose the situations in my life that I wished to give attention to.<br /><br />A woman’s mind is as capable today, as it was yesterday. Today we have an abundance of tools to assist us in our journey. We have great leaders to follow. One question, why settle for being a follower? We are all destined to be a great leader. <br /><br />Women don’t have to settle for a life of oppression. 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