5 Tips For Meeting & Attracting Women In The Day

As the elevator door opens you see a gorgeous woman. You suddenly feel nervous. You feel like you shouldn't even go in the elevator. "Maybe I should just take the stairs instead." You decide to get on the elevator. You don't even say a word to her. You're mad at yourself for not taking at least a chance to say something to her.

Does this sound at all familiar to you? I bet you have come across many situations just like this. In this article I'm going to give you five tips to help you deal with meeting women in the day.

Tip 1: Just Say Hi

In a day time setting you don't have to worry so much about women with attitude. Deep down inside she is a nice person who is friendly. She wants to meet a guy who can act normal and be himself. If it's not you then it will be some other guy. You might just as well say "Hi" and see where things take you from there.

Tip 2: Make an Offer to Go Somewhere Else

Depending on where you meet her you can make a mini date offer. Ask her to grab a quick coffee or go grab some ice cream.

"You seem spontaneous. Let's go grab an ice cream cone?"

"I like talking to you Sarah! How bought we continue this conversation over coffee?"

She won't always agree. That is fine. Don't be pushy about it or be a jerk. Get her number and call her up some other time.

Tip 3: Create Rapport

Having the ability to create rapport with a woman quickly is a great skill. When you create rapport you can build trust easily. This trust can then be easily used to get her number or to get her to go on a date right on the spot.

Ask her open-ended questions about herself. Follow those questions up with your own statements and comments to make an interesting conversation that is two sided.

Tip 4: Be Flirtatious

To break up rapport and to create attraction you need to flirt a little along the way. Tease her a little bit and get her to show you her goofy side. This will make her more playful. This will open her up to touching you and you being able to touch her.

Tip 5: Escalate

If you don't escalate you will run out of things to say and things will stall out. When you escalate she will escalate too. Escalating is simply moving things forward. By moving things forward you create tension and excitement.

You should escalate whenever she is putting forth the amount of effort into interacting with you that you like to see. I like to fill the glass half full and then let her fill the other half of the glass. Then I will reward her by asking her to go somewhere else, touching her, complimenting her, or anything else that builds excitement. This makes her work for your attention and approval.

Conclusion

None of these five tips will work if you aren't brave enough to take a chance. You have to be willing to give her an option to reject you. Sometimes you will get turned down. Embrace these challenges with open arms. The end result will be a better dating life then you have ever had before.

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