6 Tips for Finding the Perfect Wing Man

Today I came across that beer commercial by Coors light which joked about the importance of having a wing man. In this short advertisement, a guy is able to get with an attractive woman because his wingman was able to occupy her annoying friend.

In addition to being funny, this commercial got me thinking...

A lot of your success with women depends on your wingman. If you have a good wingman, the process of meeting and attracting women becomes that much easier.

What makes a good wing man?

Well in this article I'll discuss six characteristics of the perfect wingman. If you're able to find the perfect partner in crime, you're success with women will dramatically increase.

So when you're trying to find a wingman, look for these 6 traits:

1- Shared knowledge

I have to be honest here...

Meeting and attracting women sometimes involves various techniques and routines.

The perfect wingman should share your knowledge of your methods and can do certain things to complement them. In addition, this guy should be able to work with you and help out with specific routines which demonstrate higher value.

For instance, you can demonstrate a lot of value with a woman by cold reading and doing mock psychic games. A good wing will understand this routine and will be able to help you out.

2- He's your best fan

Meeting women is about teamwork.

In order to be a good wing man, you have to know each other's strengths. Then whenever you're around women, you should brag about each other's strengths.

This is important because women are turned off when guys brag about themselves. But they are attracted to men when their friends talk positively about them.

3- He is equal or better then you

Weak personalities tend to gravitate towards guys with lousy game. This is a direct result from a lack of confidence and a need to feel superior to somebody. But if you do this, your ability to attract women will never improve.

In order to improve your skills, you need to select a wingman who is equal to your ability. Perhaps he is even better then you.

By selecting a guy with a great ability to attract women you can learn a lot by watching his routines.

4- You complement one another

People like diversity.

In order to attract beautiful women, you should hang out with a guy who has a different look and style from your own. By having a unique perspective from your own, you can build on each other's knowledge and work together to meet different women.

5- You communicate

At the risk of sounding like a "Dear Abby" column, I have to say that an important trait of a good wingman is somebody who can communicate with you.
Specifically you should let each other know which women you're going after.

When you do this, you'll be able to help one another with your goal. In addition, you'll avoid the conflict which occurs when you both go for the same woman

6- He handles obstacles

Okay you probably know that the best use of a wing man is to handle the obstacles which arise when meeting a woman.

For instance all women have friends who act as buffers. A good wingman will occupy their time which allows you to isolate and focus on attracting the object of your interest.

Now the important thing to remember is you should share the responsibility of "taking one for the team". So don't think it's ALWAYS your buddy's job to occupy the obstacles you encounter.

A good team is able share the responsibility. By assisting one another you'll be able to achieve maximum results with women.

Since this guy can make or break your success with women, you need to choose carefully. If you can find a guy who has ALL six of these traits, then you'll have the perfect wing man for attracting women.

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