7 Steps to Improving Your Social Life and Meeting More Women

An incredible social life is the cornerstone of a successful dating experience. When you know a lot of people, you'll be in a position of having LOTS of opportunities for meeting interesting girls.

But what can you do if you're the type of guy who has a very unproductive social life? Well in this article, I'll provide my foolproof seven step system for improving your social life and increasing your chances of meeting more women.

Step #1- Call your friends

The first step is to provide a simple baseline for the rest of this plan. Right now, you probably have a core group of friends who encompass your social circle. If you want to meet more people, then you have to start somewhere.

So the initial thing to do is call up your friends and make plans to do something different. The key is to organize an event which brings you out of your comfort zone and into something which is fun. In other words, you want to start going to places which provide a social environment.

Step # 2- Look for hidden opportunities

As you journey on your path towards being social, you're opportunities for fun activities will increase. Due to inertia, most guys avoid 'uncomfortable environments'. Instead of doing this, you should start going to these events EVEN if you don't think they'll be fun.

The truth is you never know what'll happen when you try different things. Perhaps the most boring event could provide a chance to meet an interesting girl. So never pass up an invitation to an event.

Step # 3- Make friends

While it's great to have old friends, your social life can get a real shot in the arm if you start going making new friends at the events you're frequenting.

One piece of advice I recommend is to talk to EVERYONE at these events. Even if it's a bunch of guys, you can still get a lot of social mileage by talking to people who have connections. Even the most mundane person probably knows a few attractive women. So by making connections with everyone, you're giving yourself opportunities to find new friends and meet more girls.

Step #4- Keep contact with your new friends

I like to think of my friends like currency. The more you have, the more you opportunities you'll accumulate. As you go to new events and get introduced to a lot of people, you'll start to build momentum on the number of buddies you'll acquire.
In order to maximize your opportunities, you should maintain constant contact with the friends that you're making. Even if you're just sending a quick email, a consistent correspondence with your friends will improve your social life. If they're always talking to you, then you'll stick out in their minds when a cool event comes up.

Step #5- Keep up to date

Every geographic location has fun events happening. The problem is most guys won't bother to look for them. Instead they're satisfied with doing the same thing over and over.

Instead of being like them, you can gain a social status by being the guy who is up to date on all events happening in your area. All you have to do is open you're local paper and you'll have access to dozens, even hundreds of fun things going on.

Step #6- Plan events

It's human nature to want to be around fun people. So if you become the guy who is plans out fun times, then you'll become the focal point of your social circle.

What you want to do is plan out a few different interesting activities EACH month and invite everyone that you know. Eventually the people in your social life will look to you to plan out the good times. And over time, you can use these events to meet interesting women.

Step #7- Be fun

Finally, you have to go beyond being the guy who plans out fun events. At all times, you must display a fun and interesting personality. When you attend social activities, you should be regarded as the guy who can make others have a good time.

The truth is most people live boring lives. If you're the source of interesting experiences, then people will want to hang out with you. The end result is you'll become the first person they call when they want to have a fun night.

Improving your social life is one of the crucial elements for meeting and dating a lot of women. If you follow the seven rules I discussed in this article, then you'll discover that it's pretty easy to transform into a fun guy who has an incredible social life.

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