Be A Player -- Is That What You Really Want?

Everybody wants to be a player...

But no one seems to want to learn the game…

Seriously, I can’t tell you how many times I hear people say…

“But I don’t want to play games”

Or

“I hate the game, why can’t people just be normal”.

Ok, ready for a shocker, buckwheat.

People ARE BEING NORMAL… the “game” IS normal… quit having unrealistic expectations about this. Just understand that the “game” is going to be played… you’re either IN or OUT… and it’s up to you.

This isn’t like basketball, though, where only the tallest and best physical specimens rule… no my friend… the “true” game is like baseball…

It’s an averages man’s game where the average man… through hard work and perseverance… can beat the (censored) out of the great looking guys every night of the week.

That, my friend, is the hard reality… and that’s phenomenal news…

Look, the “game” isn’t necessarily about male vs female or vice versa. No, the game is about communication between two people. The same types of body language that get you ahead with women are the same types that get you ahead in life… period.

This game that everyone seems to be so afraid of is not that hard of a thing to understand… he who communicates his intentions the most clearly… and gets the other person to feel comfortable with those intentions… wins every time.

These are LIFE SKILLS… they aren’t seduction skills.

You need to understand this.

People that begin to get this part of their life handled naturally start to become more successful at everything that they do… which of course… generally helps out in the love department.

Remember, when you are learning any of this material… all you are really doing is figuring out how to give the other person EXACTLY what they want…

That’s it.

People aren’t going to do what they don’t want to do… even drunk men and women do what they want ultimately… (as long as you aren’t “forcing” it, ya know).

So, with all of this being said… put your negative feelings on some of this aside and come into the light, my friend. People will be much happier being around you when you truly start to “get it”. It’s a weird feeling at first…

But it’s such a POWERFUL FEELING.

And coming from a position of power is the only way to go…

Look, I’m gonna make recommendations for you… follow them.

If I think you should go buy something… take a stab in the dark and go buy it…

Remember, successful people invest more in THEMSELVES than most people think… or would even believe.

So, come back daily… I’ll get at least one post up each day during the week on either a lesson, or an experience, or just something flat out funny that I thought of that just might give you an “A HA!” moment the next time that you’re out.

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