Make Sure What Women Want Is You!

What women want? Is a question that has plagued mankind forever. Lets be honest with ourselves here guys we don't really know what women want. You are a smart guy; you are nice, courteous, polite, decent looking and have a good job, yet the women you meet still do not seem to be that interested in you. Or you may be dating a lot but not getting past a few dates with the women you really like, even your sex life has begin to suffer. With you not getting as much as you want and not with the women you really want. If this sounds like you guys, you have truly misunderstood what women are looking for.

The problem is not your fault guys; it lies with the society we live in. Women are bombarded with messages from romance novels, TV shows and movies telling them the type of guy they should want. Showing the stereotype of the guy who comes in to play the "shining knight" role, rescuing a woman from all her troubles and cares. The problem with this guy is that we do not live in a fairytale world. There are no dragons to slay or invisible villains to defeat.

Truthfully guys, women don't always know what they want! So instead of spending money and catering to a woman's every whim, instead have her wanting you instead! Though women don't always know what they want there are certain traits that turn on any woman and can get you a date or get you laid.

Go caveman: Yes, we live in the 21st century and are experiencing incredible transformations in our society but sexual attraction is still based a lot on the programming of our genes. In women, these genes encourage women to look for the provider type. A man who is strong and capable of handling any type of situation, women can't help but be attracted to guys who assert themselves and are able to lead and give instructions to others around them. Develop your caveman instincts by being:

- Dominant: Don't be the guy hiding in the dark corner of a club. You should be hanging out where all the action is, surrounded by others if you want to be what women want. Dominate males are naturally given respect by other man in the room and are looked too as leaders.

- Confident: Second-guessing, hesitating and being unable to make a decision are signs of a guy who will not be getting any sex and has no idea what women want! You don't have to act superior or be a jerk just show some backbone and be unapologetic for your opinions!

- Strong: Men are providers, being physically and emotionally strong are positives. This does not mean you need to join a gym or any other extreme. It just means being able to show a woman that you are able to provide her support, being able to stand up for her, if some jerk makes a move while you are together on a date. You can show emotional strength by being resolved and calm instead of being the type of guy who panics and runs when a situation occurs.

Be exciting: Predictable boring guys are no fun to date, especially in a new relationship. What women want is to date a guy who is a little unpredictable. A guy who she can't automatically read, if a woman thinks she has you all figured out, what will be her motivation to stick around? Nothing! Women tend to think of men like a puzzle they want to put together and understand, make sure you are the one holding out all the pieces and only give out one piece of the puzzle at a time. You can be exciting by:

- Talking about your interest: Nobody wants a conversation about what time you got up, how you brushed your teeth or how often you floss, a conversation like that is like watching paint dry. Tedious and dull, instead talk about passionate topics, if you are engaging and interesting a woman is more likely to respond the same way.

- Holding back: Your whole life history may be fascinating to you but to her it is dull and boring, so shut up about it! Holding back some information about yourself may make you look more interesting to women, as they are enthralled by the idea of men who have secrets. If you want to increase your chances of getting woman, then be a little mysterious.

- Never do the same thing twice: Dating is about having fun and what women want is a guy who is impulsive and a little unpredictable. Take a girl out to an unexpected place for a date can make you some more adventurous than any other guy she has ever been with.

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