Want to Get Laid? Learn the Rules of the Game

Dating is a game and just like basketball, football, baseball, hockey or soccer there are teams. In this case, the teams are men versus women. Not only are their teams in dating there are: guards, points to be made and other players in your way to winning. Some of these players are much more popular and successful than you. If you want to get laid, you need to have the handbook to the dating game and you have to study it. Learning what rules there are and how to use them to your advantage.

Know Your Competition. How does a basketball team win a game? Of course, you have to have talent but the best defense is always a good offense. If you want to get laid and date gorgeous women learn a little from all the other guys that are your biggest threats to getting a woman's name and number. When you go out to places where girls are at, take a few minutes to look around and see what girls are approached.

Pay attention to the methods that guys use, some guys are likely to just walk right up and ask for a woman's phone number and you might see her get angry or brush him off not too politely. You might be feeling a little sorry for the guy but truthfully, he barged right in without thinking. You do not approach a woman without making eye contact first; it is like trying to catch a fish without baiting a hook. Without the eye signal the guy had no reason to think hitting on a strange woman would get him laid.

Of course, some guys are much better players at the game, and these are the ones you want to focus on. When it comes to dating there are only so many rules and tricks that work and if what works is a method another guy uses be smart and add it to your own routine.

Believe in your talent: Ever went too high school with an incredibly gifted athlete? A guy that seemed to have so much more talent than his peers and always lead his team to victory? I did. His name was John, a guy who joined the varsity basketball team in the 10th grade and actually had the opportunity to be seen by scouts in his senior year. John might have made it all the way except the pressure proved too much for him. He started to panic and started skipping practicing; when the scouts finally came around too see him, all they saw was an average player.

John missed out on the chance of a lifetime because he would not develop his talent. Dating is a similar field and if you want to get laid, you have to be constantly approaching woman and learning what techniques work. Even guys who are called nerds or geeks and feel lost when trying to date can develop these skills. Not everyone naturally knows how to flirt or use body language to hit on woman, but there are methods of learning these skills, that will work and don't take years to master.

Get a coach. All teams have coaches or mentors, someone to help you develop dating skills and to provide honest feedback and support when you need it. You can get this advice from your friends, but sometimes the best person to ask for advice is a guy who has been in your situation, someone who struggled to understand the rules of dating and had no idea how to walk up to a woman or ask for her phone number.

A coach does not always have to be a person. Online systems that allow men to receive information about improving their dating lives and finding women to get laid now offer a complete 'start to finish' approach for man who need guidance. If you do not think you need guidance, take a second to think about the last ten times you approached a woman. Consider if you got her number, if the number was real and not a fake and if you were able to follow up a phone call with an actual date. Unless you scored a perfect 10 out of 10 you could use some help in the dating game.

So my advice is simple guys, if you want to get laid you have to learn the rules of dating. Dating can be fun and freeing or it can be serious and tedious. Make dating fun and have as much sex as you dream about by getting a little assistance.

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