What Does Your Woman Want

Every guy wants to know what women want. How else are we supposed to be able to get there if we don't ever get the road map? However, it just isn't that simple. Women are different. Many women want one thing while other women want an entirely different picture. So the real question turns into, 'What does your woman want?'

Whether you are casually dating, in a long term committed relationship, or experiencing one of the hottest sexual flings in your personal history, determining what your woman wants is part of making your experiences with women successful and fulfilling. Otherwise you may as well go down to the batting cages and release your frustration on a few fast pitches.

The best part about women, is that they do actually tell you what they want. The most frustrating part about women is that they don't tell us in language we can understand. Sometimes a guy can be pretty dense and a woman who gently nudges might not get her needs met unless we can become more perceptive and start receiving their language better.

Here's a clue. When you and yours are in the midst of a little foreplay and she nudges you gently or lifts her hips, that is a request, guys. When a women is walking back and forth waiting for you to wrap it up on the phone with your ex (talking about the kids is okay, talking about other stuff really ought to wait) that is also a request. When a woman shrugs and tells you it's fine, that is not permission to go but an invitation to find out how she really feels. These things are confusing to a guy, especially when all he wants is a straightforward answer to a question.

Women want the same things that guys want. They want to be respected, they want to be honored and loved, and they don't ever want to feel as though they have to sacrifice something in them in order to be with a guy, whether for a night or a lifetime. As great as it is that we all pretty much want the same things, it can be really hard to understand what women don't just ask for what they need. The answer is pretty plain and simple. Just as guys have been taught that some things are not okay, so have women. Women aren't intentionally confusing, they were simply never taught that it's okay to ask for what they want.

Women spend just as much time, if not more, unraveling the mysteries that they were taught growing up. What it means to be a woman changes as fast as what it means to be a man. A guy that can learn to read women well, and realize that they have to look past the basic outer layer, is going to have women lined up around the block. Any time a guy can learn how to be directed by a woman without inflicting their own opinion about how one should ask for things he has scored huge.

The more time you spend around women, deciphering their codes and learning their quietly directive language, the better you will become at learning the secret code of womanly requests. It's not that hard once you stop trying to listen for the way you would ask for things.

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