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Author: Sherri Nickols | Total views: 77 Comments: 0
Word Count: 653 Date: Mon, 5 Jan 2009 9:51 PM

Tips For Life Change - Learn Three Powerful Words To Help You Overcome The Pain Of Divorce

Are you fighting forgiveness? When going through emotional crises everyone tells you how important it is to forgive. I don't know about you but I always interpreted that to mean the other person or people involved. In reality the most important person you need to forgive is yourself...read on to see what Michael Beckwith (yes the guy from the Secret) has to say about this very crucial healing process.

Whenever I can I make my way to hear Dr. Michael's inspirational sermons. I know without a shadow of a doubt when I'm able to show up it's for a message I'm meant to hear. Today was no exception - the topic, A Dimensional Shift, was very powerful.

Loosely translated this was a sermon on:
Forgiveness
Surrender
Change

He spoke of his own recent experience meditating - he saw dark dimensions that alarmed him and then a booming voice said, I completely forgive myself, and miraculously the frightening visions vanished. Peace and a beautiful, invincible light, his pure essence, were all that was left. The simple act of forgiving himself created a dimensional shift.

Hearing this was mighty but when he had us start to sing and repeat the mantra, I forgive myself, I surrender, I am ready for change, I was shocked at the power of the words. There was a floodgate of emotion surfacing not only for me but for all those around me as well.

I found it to be proof that we all punish ourselves for our past experiences and unconsciously hold ourselves captive to this negative mind-set. Our transparent limiting beliefs are on autopilot and fuel our reactions to life creating more of what we don't want.

Before I go any further I invite you to take a moment and repeat the same mantra for yourself and see what comes up:

I forgive myself for.... (Fill in the blank)
I surrender
I am ready for change

Work with it and see what comes up. If you feel no charge you are golden, but if you experience emotion there is some work that needs to be done to clear that feeling. It's a wonderful and liberating exercise.Back to Dr. Michael - he passionately points out all forgiveness is self-forgiveness. It's imperative to free yourself from the toxicity of what's running through your mind. Don't give your power away to any circumstance allowing it to determine your happiness. You have complete control of your life and happiness - Amen brother!!

Next you must surrender and this doesn't mean to give up - it means surrender to the greatness that is in you so that you can move up to the next stage of evolution being the best version of you.

Upon doing this you are announcing to the universe that you are ready for change and like magic situations will start presenting in your life that confirm change is happening.

An interesting thing happened as I was walking out of this illuminating service - the gentleman who had been sitting to my left came up and asked if he could share a thought. He went on to say this was only the third time he had been to Agape - but something told him to attend today. He was very moved and said he wanted me to know what a profound message it was for him, and how much he needed to hear it... and then he left.This gentle man left me thinking that people all over the world are ready to forgive and surrender and change their paradigm. People all over the world are ready to share their enlightenments and connect on a heart level with complete strangers. People all over the world are waking up...are you?

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the secret to healing faster and finding inner peace, at last. Sherri
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