I Want My Ex Back! 5 Tips That Will Improve Your Chances

Do you really want to improve your chances and get your ex back? Well, do not sit there and feel sad for yourself. Go and do something about it!

You have just broken up and feel that you MUST get your ex back but do not know where to start nor how to go about getting them back. All that you know is that they are gone.

Let me share with you some killer tips that can really tilt the scales in your favor!

TIP ONE - TIME IS YOUR FRIEND

One of the first questions you should ask yourself is - "What happened to cause your ex to leave and where did you go wrong?"

You absolutely need to get your head together before you can work on the solution to get you ex back. Time helps to put things into a better perspective and gives you opportunity to work on a plan. Time also gives your ex space to think about things without being under pressure from you.

I cannot underestimate the importance of time. Use it to your advantage.

TIP TWO - THE NEW YOU!

Now that you've had some time to sort through your feelings and grief it is time for some changes to take place.

If you want your ex to feel good about you, then you have got to feel good about yourself. Stop moping around. Hold your head high and gleam with confidence.

Work on things that you will make you look and feel better. Besides the emotional workout you need the physical workout as well.

You want to exude an air of confidence not one of desperation.

TIP THREE - PLAN AND THEN FIRE

Now is time for the planning stage to kick in.

Here you will formulate the plan on how to go about winning your ex back.

What actions will you take?

You are not shooting straight from the hip and misfiring because you will not let your emotions rule your actions.

Planning should include things like first casual approaches to the ex after the break up.

Plan on getting together with your ex for short periods. Enjoy a lunch together. Drop off some fresh strawberries with the excuse that you were given too many by a friend. Do not do dinner as this tends to be a more intimate meal.

TIP FOUR - MY SUPER NINJA TACTIC ;)

Create a more intimate time to be with each other.

In this step you should look at something that you both enjoyed together in the past and plan on doing this again.

Here you are trying to get your ex to remember how it felt when things were good and how it could be good again. You want them to know that you remember the good old days, and can still re-create them.

This should be a positive outing and not one in which you hash out everything that happened after the good times. Take your ex out on several dates. You want to leave them with a good feeling as well as the desire for more time with you.

TIP FIVE - WORK ON YOUR PROBLEMS AS A COUPLE

Let your ex know how you feel and that you want in again.

Work together as a couple, in a non-threatening or challenging way to resolve the problem(s) that you once had. Without working through these issues that surrounded the breakup there will always be a part of your relationship broken.

Taking no action is better than pleading but will never get your ex back. You have to be committed to doing what it takes.

If you follow my five tips here, you will improve your chances of getting back your ex. So do not just sit there! Get up and get at it. You can do it!

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