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Tantric Touching Tips To Make Her Burn With Desire

Tantric touching is a great part of Tantric sex. It forms as a great primer to hours upon hours of lovemaking. Since it's such an important element, you need to make time for it. You cannot just ask your woman to lie down and be touched! You need to set a time and place for tantric touching.

Sexual Tantric touching is a great 'bonding time' activity with your partner. Engage in it and you'll benefit from more than just physical pleasure.

Tantric Touching Tips

Here are some tips that will surely heighten the level of sexual touching for you and your woman.

Touching is not only done with the hands.
Sure, you can start the session with light touches like touching her toes and/or closed eyelids with just your fingertips but don't be limited with just using your hands. You can use your wrists, your arms, your legs or even your whole upper body!

Tantric touching examples:
- Dab a little scented oil on the insides of your wrists and rub your wrists together. Now glide your wrists on either side of her face, from her forehead to her chin and back again. Apply little pressure, the scent of the oil and the silky touch of your wrists should relax her mind.
- Ask her or position her arms above her head. Using the length of your arms, run them along the side of her body. If you're a bit hairy, all the better; the different texture will feel good on her smooth body.
- Ask her to lie face down. Put some scented oil or massage oil on your upper body and glide against her bare back. Be careful not to put all your weight on her!

Touching can be as soft, light, or rough as you guys want it to be.
Touching can mean many things. It can mean feathery like running a single fingertip from her collarbones to her belly or a bit harder like using your nails and (mildly!) scratching her arms.

Tantric touching examples:
- Use your fingers and TAP on her forearms.
- Use your whole hands and RUB her back (or front if your naughty).
- Use your nails and lightly scratch her bare buttocks.

Tantric touching should make use of different intensities.
Try to alternate between light and hard strokes or touches. However, make the transitions slow. Don't just rub her back and then immediately run a fingertip on over her spine. You want her to relax, not tense up!

Tantric touching should be done when you BOTH feel up to it.
One very important tip is this: don't force tantric touching to happen. Tantric sex is all about giving and receiving so if either one of you (or worse, both) are too tired to engage in tantric touching, then simply re-schedule! No pressures remember?

Tantric touching tenet: there are no 'orgasmic' goals.
Keep in mind that tantric touching does not have to necessarily culminate in reaching an orgasm. Again, it's bonding time so if you guys reach an orgasm, great! If not, that's great too. Focus your mind on what you're doing NOW - touching and exploring each other's bodies - and not on any later sexual goals.

Don't be ashamed to use props.
Tantric touching can incorporate so many things! It can include different types of fabric (e.g., satin, silk, cotton, velvet, etc.), different pillow sizes, and even some select food items.

Don't be ashamed to let your imaginations run wild.
Role playing has its place in Tantric touching. If it helps you both, you can crate your own scenes and situations. Just don't forget to imagine the flow of energy between the two of you two. For example, as you run your hand against her thighs, imagine the warm, tingly energy flowing from your body into her thighs (or vice versa).

It's ok to take breaks... but try not to break contact.
Sometimes, breaks are necessary during Tantric touching. For instance, she might have reached an orgasm and touching her erotically further may not be a good idea. In this case, simply change the pressure, rhythm and location of your touch and give her a few minutes to 'come down to earth'. However, is possible, don't break skin contact. Continue to touch her with your fingertips or ensure your knee is in contact with her leg, etc.

Also since Tantric touching can last for hours, it's not a bad idea to have a decanter of wine or pitcher of water, and some food items (e.g., fruit, cheese, etc.) nearby.

About the Author

Gabrielle Moore is the co-author of The Female Ejaculation Mastery. It is a step-by-step guide to teach men about female ejaculation. For more information, go to: http://www.femaleorgasmrevealed.com/female-ejaculation.html