They Are All Crazy, What Should I Do?

One of the most common complaints men have about their women is that they are "crazy".

Now this characterization while not clinical by any means certainly is almost always supported by ample anecdotal evidence.

(Meaning the men always tell you a story usually evidencing some kind of vastly out of proportion reaction nay overreaction to what sounds like a not too significant incident comment or action.) The men routinely recount some normal situation from their perspective that suddenly and without any forewarning quickly spins out of control.

The resultant verbal assault or worse leads to the man becoming angry and belatedly trying to catch up to the situation and escalating the argument. I have heard many different versions and varieties of this phenomenon ranging from a seemingly innocent comment about work or dinner or somebody they spoke with or about earlier to a mention of potential plans to do something with friends or relatives at a later time.

I have heard many other similar seemingly normal (from the male perspective) situations that sound innocent enough that somehow led to one of these escalations and the subsequent story of "she's crazy."

Of course in these situations the woman often times bring up anything and everything they can think of to show you that whatever they believe you have done in the past which certainly was terrible from their perspective must again be discussed even though it usually has no connection or relevance to the issue at hand. (whatever that may be)

Sometimes these fights end with threats of divorce somebody leaving the house horrible name calling tears or worse.

I had read that Jason Kidds wife use to try to stand in front of his car so he couldn't leave to show up for his Nets games prior to their filing for divorce. Imagine that the guys wife was trying to get him to miss his teams game bringing with it the prospect of news reports suspensions and or fines permanently effecting his future ability to earn money during the limited lifespan of an NBA player.

Now that brings up the inevitable question to what effect? Now as mentioned in the Jason Kidd example it led to an ugly divorce. But what about those of us men who are looking to avoid a divorce but also find themselves thinking do I really deserve to have to put up with this? And Why should I have to put up with this?

They find themselves thinking wouldn't I be better off, happier less stressed out if I didn't have to go through these incidents or just got away from this "crazy woman"?

The, Is it worth it for the kids and the mostly stable environment? The fear of upheaval a seperation or divorce would bring?

The financial impact? the seeing your kids everyday? and Finally the specter of giving up on the woman that you fell in love with, who gave birth and helped raise your children to that point?

What do the men do? Well some seemingly figure they will go outside the marriage to get what they aren't receiving in the marriage be it sex or ottherwise, maybe subconsciously figuring if they get caught that will force the inevitable decision.

Others I suppose start living that seperate but together life for the kids others still try the counseling thing and some bail and file for divorce facing that unpleasant process.

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Besides I hear they are all "crazy" so if you leave this one the next one may be even "crazier" You saw Fatal Attraction right?

Husband to Gina Grey

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