Law of Attraction and Relationships - Attracting a Partner

Nothing is more important to us or for us than our intimate relationships, be they sexual or of any other kind including those we work closely with and those we choose as friends. The cosmic Law of Attraction works to manifest our relationships for us; for by the Law of Attraction we know that all of our relationships are there because we have drawn them there--and now, what we choose to do with them is up to us.

But so many people are without the love they want or need in their lives that it's a tragedy bordering on sickness. Lost or unrequited loves, broken relationships, abounds and are all too common. How might the Law of Attraction be used to right this wrong for you in your own life?

The very first thing to understand about interpersonal relationships is that they are complex. What this means for you is you must take great care with each one of them, starting from deciding if you really want a certain one that is manifesting in your life or one that you think you desire in your fantasies, and extending to very careful consideration of what kind of people you want in your life and who would be a possible soul mate for you.

You see, most people are permitting some very sick relationships to manifest and grow in their lives. There may be a host of reasons why this is happening, including: feelings of being undeserving of who you really want as a romantic partner; feelings of being inferior; feelings of being a permanent failure; compounding feelings of forever being essentially alone; grief; frustration; feeling that you "have to stay" closely attached to your family and dance to their beat even when you feel respect and joy mostly for things or attitudes that they don't value; and the list goes on and on.

The Law of Attraction is an electromagnetic field generator. You become a charged circuit and attract and repulse certain people because of who you are AND who you seek. You've heard it said that opposites attract, especially within romantic or erotic relationships. This is an expression of purest disease. It is a sickness. Don't fall for it. Don't rent your mind out to that notion.

If you are drawn to your opposite it is because you have a problem. Your true soul mate is not your opposite except, for most people, in gender. When you enter into a committed relationship, it should be IF AND ONLY IF you have found someone with whom you agree far more than you disagree, whose likes and interests you share to a very great extent, who is your best friend, whom you work well with, who wants to live in a similar climate to what you do, and who has values that you respect and find joy in.

There is nothing wrong with looking to your opposite people for lessons that you can add to your own life to deepen yourself, but when people are attracted intimately to their opposite it's because they have something wrong with them.

They have a perverted value; they have an unknown wound that is doing their mind harm; they have had their feelings about things twisted by bad experiences that they didn't know what to do with; the allowed their parents to screw them up; they feel as if they are lacking something (besides sex) in their life that this opposite person can give them through their presence; and on and on.

Most people, sorry to say, are not born into the right family. This is not always true, but typically it is true that a person must separate and individuate from her family at the earliest possible age, and then distance herself from them (although this does not have to mean cutting them out of her life or not being loving toward them, unless they were outrageously abusive to her).

Yet, people are always letting what their family beliefs directly influence the kind of people they draw into their lives and cultivate relationships with. This results in a wide array of problems, including very high divorce rates, people getting married and having children when they're not ready, toxic friendships, people taking jobs they hate, and on and on.

So to use the Law of Abundance to get the love and relationships you want into your life, begin by knowing that you can have what's yours, and those who are yours are those whom you almost instantly respect, feel joyful about, feel productive around, feel inspired by, and feel a kinship (that is, "kind-ship") with. But remember: other people are as free as you are. You may draw the right person into your life but then find they have serious problems.

You will have to work carefully with this kind of situation; if you love that person you'll help them as you can, but in the end they have to take responsibility for solving their problems, problems which may interfere with your relationship. But you can never make things right with the wrong person.

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